Wednesday, August 15, 2018

MY MOTHER MARY


[1]If a small child hurts his finger, he runs to Mommy crying.  All Mommy has to do is to kiss the finger and it is well again.  Children know their mother loves them and has made a great many sacrifices for them.
In the same way we look on Mary as our heavenly mother.  Remember Jesus’ dying words from the cross, he said to Mary, “'Woman behold, your son’, and to John, ‘Behold your mother’” (Jn 19:26-27).  We have always regarded this exchange as Jesus giving us his mother, to be our mother.  She is the mother to whom we can tell every joy and every sorrow.
I took Monday off only to come in to work Tuesday to find the “Our Sunday Visitor” on my desk open to an article about the resignation of Cardinal Theodore McCarrick amid a sexual abuse scandal.  It was as if a wound that was partially healed was being reopened.  Then this morning I hear on the news of the release of the Pennsylvania Grand Jury’s report and the wound was ripped wide open.  In the end these abuses are nothing short of selfishness gone really bad and an unwillingness to empty ourselves and take up our cross.
Mary’s greatness lies in the fact she was humble before and surrendered herself to God.  Her words to the angel, at the annunciation, are words for meditation, “Let it be done to me according to your word” (Lk 1:38).  Because she surrendered herself to God, God filled her with his presence, just as God desires to fill us when we surrender ourselves.  Mary surrendering of herself did not mean a perpetual spiritual honeymoon, but a continual giving of herself to God as time went on.  Mary’s sinlessness, obedience and being ‘full of grace’ led naturally to her assumption, body and soul, into heaven.
There is, in all of us, the tendency or temptation to refuse to allow God to have control of our lives.  We are challenged to surrender our lives to God.  Sometimes we stand before God and hold out our hands, full of ourselves.  God can’t give himself to us like this, God can only give himself to us if our hands and our hearts are empty.  Our lives are meant to be given more and more to God.  To meet God in heaven we will have to first fully surrender ourselves to let God be God in our lives.  Surrender just as our brother Jesus surrendered himself totally.  He faced abandonment, ridicule, abuse and even death, death on a cross, for our sanctification, all to unite us to an all loving Father and heavenly mother.
One way to surrender ourselves and be filled with the presence of God, like Mary, is to pray the Rosary daily.  The Rosary is a great weapon to use against the temptations of this world.  It’s a prayer that brings us closer to and keeps us close to God.  When we pray the Rosary, we are not just saying prayers, we can tune in to God and our blessed Mother, allowing our minds to meditate on twenty great events in the life of Jesus. 
When we are in the pit of despair, depression, or desperation not knowing where to turn or how to pray, the Rosary is a beautiful way to keep us connected to our heavenly mother.  When we do so, we can exclaim with Mary her visitation sentiments:
“My soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord
and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior
because he has looked upon his lowly servant.” (Lk 1:46-48)[2]



[1] Scriptures: 1 Chronicles 15:3-4, 15-16; 16:1-2; 1 Corinthians 15:54b-57; Luke 11:27-28
[2] Copyright © 2013. Fr. Tommy Lane

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